My name is Frank "Frankie" James Michael Grande-Rance and I am forty-seven years old and I'm married to my beautiful husband Zachary "Zack" Collin Grande-Rance, who is thirty-nine, of the past eighteen years. We have four children, Dash, Thea, Spencer and Arabella who are seventeen, sixteen, fifteen and fourteen respectively. Here is a five year chunk of our lives and how it changed us.
Year 1:
Zack and I were shocked to find out that Spencer had been suspended from school for fighting of all things. Spencer practices MMA as a hobby since he was twelve year old and therefore he had very little scratches on him. The other kids, not so much. Zack finds it a little funny, but I'm not happy in the slightest. The private school the kids go to has a zero tolerance policy and they're thinking of expelling Spencer. However, with some prodding he tells us why he got into a fight with them. They were making fun of the younger kids for having two dads. Not to mention he has proof of it. We take it to the school and while the suspension stays in place, the other three boys get expelled.
Year 2:
After some discussion, Zack and I feel like we have a lot of room in our home and in our family for another child. We go back and forth about adoption or using a surrogate again, we decide to go with adoption this time around. We have some back and forth on where to adopt from and end up picking German as our location as both of us have some German ancestry as well as that was where we had honeymooned together after our wedding. We make the choice that we'd like an older child. We're matched up with a ten year old girl named Karsten Saskia Natalya. We adore her instantly on sight of her picture. After a few months of work we're ready to take her home with us and she fits in amazingly, the kids love her and Arabella is so excited to have a little sister. Zack and I know we made the best choice.
Year 3:
Ever since we adopted her, Karsten has been having some issues with being bullied. The private school the kids are going to is meant to have a no tolerance policy an it usually does, the issue is the head girl responsible for picking on Karsten is the principal's daughter! There has go to be some kind of conflict of interest here and Zack and I are livid that are little girl is being treated like this. In the end, I let Zack do what he does best. He sets a meeting the principal and lays down the law, literally. If the school doesn't step in then our lawyers will be and the school will be in big trouble. In the end, he transfers his daughter to a new private school and expels the four other girls responsible for the bullying. We also decide to enroll Karsten in an MMA class where Spencer will be an assistant teacher, hopefully it'll boost her confidence.
Year 4:
Having had two of our children leave the nest per say with our two oldest Dash and Thea leaving for college. Dash is attending Columbia and is pursing a degree in business while Thea is attending NYU with the plans to duel major in Political Science and Philosophy and then attend Law School. From there we think about it and well, the nest feels a little empty and so we make the choice to have another child. This time we decide to use a surrogate instead of adoption, we end up flipping a coin and Frankie will be the sperm donor this time. The contract is set nine months later on April 30th, 2017 we welcomed Frederick "Freddie" Colin Grande-Rance into the world. He's perfect and all his siblings adore him. We're so thankful to have him.
Year 5:
Having a small child in the house again has really gotten both myself and Zack going again. We make the choice that we actually do want to have more kids in our family again, especially with Spencer leaving to attend Columbia just like Dash, though Spencer plans to major in Biology and follow it up with med school. Since Freddie is biologically my son we used Zack's sperm for the donor sperm this time and used the same surrogate as the one we used for Freddie, she was more than thrilled to work with us as we were very fair with our contract with her. We're expecting a girl this time and soon enough we welcomed Zoe Maia Josephine Grande-Rance. She's adorable and sweet, but I can see the some mischievous glint in her pretty brown eyes just like in Zack's own and I know she'll give us trouble in her teenage years. Next year, Arabella will leave us to attend FIT and get a degree in Fashion Design, our family will grow and age, though, we make the choice that Zoe will be our last child.
Twenty-five years later and our family has grown so much so, my youngest daughter is recently married and I cannot be happier.
The Grande-Rance Family
DH: Frank "Frankie" James Michael Grande-Rance [77]
DH: Zachary "Zack" Collin Grande-Rance [69]
DS: Dashiell "Dash" Levi Grande-Rance [46] (Bio Son of Frankie)
DD: Thea Arden Grande-Rance [45] (Bio Daughter of Frankie)
DS: Spencer Milo Hudson Grande-Rance [44] (Bio Son of Zack)
DD: Arabella Frances Grande-Rance [43] (Bio Daughter of Zack)
DAD: Karsten Saskia Grande-Rance [38] (Adopted from Germany)
DS: Frederick "Freddie" Colin Grande-Rance [26] (Bio Son of Frankie)
DD: Zoe Maia Josephine Grande-Rance [25] (Bio Daughter of Zack)
Frankie and Zack Grande-Rance; with Dash, Thea, Spencer, Arabella, Karsten, Freddie & Zoe
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The Grande-Rance Family
DH: Dashiell "Dash" Levi Grande-Rance [46] [Businessman]
DW: Violet Theresa Grande-Rance (nee Inais) [43] [Stay-at-home Mom]
DD: Francesca "Frannie" Viola Grande-Rance [17]
DS: Ian Jameson Cole Grande-Rance [15]
DD: Miranda "Mira" Isabeau Grande-Rance [13]
Dash and Violet Grande-Rance; with Frannie, Ian & Mira
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The Harper Family
DW: Thea Arden Harper (nee Grande-Rance) [45] [Lawyer]
DH: Roy Colton Jackson Harper [44] [Lawyer]
DS: Franklin Zachary Colt Harper [16]
DD: Aria Rachel Grace Harper [14]
DD: Micah Collette Faith Harper [13]
DS/DS/DD: Grant Randall Royce Harper, Jackson Michael Collin Harper & Raine Celeste Joy Harper [10]
Thea and Roy Harper; with Franklin, Aria, Micah, Grant, Jackson & Raine
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The Grande-Rance Family
DH: Spencer Milo Hudson Grande-Rance [44] [Pediatric Surgeon]
DW: Deborah Willa Grande-Rance (nee Holt) [38] [Accountant]
DS: Holt Michael James Grande-Rance [12]
DD: Willow Zara Francine Grande-Rance [11]
DD/DD: Sage Milena Jamie Grande-Rance & Sloane Michelle Cora Grande-Rance [8]
DS: Colin William Oliver Grande-Rance [6]
Spencer and Deborah Grande-Rance; with Holt, Willow, Sage, Sloane & Colin
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The Brooks Family
DW: Arabella Frances Brooks (nee Grande-Rance) [43] [Fashion Designer]
DH: Jai Luke Graham Philip Brooks [43] [Stay-at-home Dad]
DS: Beau Lucas Brooks [10]
DS: Francis Ares Brooks [7]
Arabella and Jai Brooks; with Beau & Francis
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The York Family
DW: Karsten Saskia York (nee Grande-Rance) [38] [Lawyer]
DH: Theodore Stefan York Sr. [45] [Cardiovascular Surgeon]
DSS: Theodore "Theo" Stefan York Jr. [15]
DSD: Stephanie Theadora York [13]
DD/DD: Natalie Greta Rafferty York & Natasha Greer Raleigh York [5]
Karsten and Theodore York; with Theo, Stephanie, Natalie & Natasha
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The Grande-Rance Family
DH: Frederick "Freddie" Colin Grande-Rance [26] [Director]
DW: Daphne Blake Grande-Rance (nee Barth) [27] [Model]
DS: Wallace "Wally" Frank Zac Grande-Rance [3]
Freddie and Daphne Grande-Rance; with Wally
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The Grande-Rance-Martinez Family
DW: Zoe Maia Josephine Grande-Rance-Martinez [25] [College Art Professor]
DW: Lola Victoria Grande-Rance-Martinez [25] [College Theater Arts Professor]
Zoe and Lola Grande-Rance-Martinez