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#1 kelsie__

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Posted 15 February 2011 - 09:31 AM

Okay, so I found out yesterday that TJ wants 2 kids; 2 boys. He already knows that I want 8. Should that make me change my mind on how many kids I want? Because now, I'm planning to only have 5 or 6, but I still want 8.

Any help will be appreciated:)

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Posted 15 February 2011 - 10:31 AM

Not yet :D I mean, a guys opinions on kids while they're young is sooo different from when they actually have a kid!

So many men don't want any kids, or only want one or two. But then, one they actually have a kid and stuff, things change.

A major change, really. Once you know the loving of a child, and start devoting your life to it, you see things so differently!

My mom wanted millions of kids, and my dad wanted maybe one or two. Yet he ended up with four :wub:

So, TJ may change his mind if you guys marry and have kids! I mean, maybe not so drastically as to have eight. But, he could probably double his original thought and have four or five :wub:

You might even change your opinion on how many once you have one! :)

So, I guess time shall tell. Who knows, things change so much one you get old... :wub:

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Posted 15 February 2011 - 03:10 PM

Not yet :D I mean, a guys opinions on kids while they're young is sooo different from when they actually have a kid!

So many men don't want any kids, or only want one or two. But then, one they actually have a kid and stuff, things change.

A major change, really. Once you know the loving of a child, and start devoting your life to it, you see things so differently!

My mom wanted millions of kids, and my dad wanted maybe one or two. Yet he ended up with four :wub:

So, TJ may change his mind if you guys marry and have kids! I mean, maybe not so drastically as to have eight. But, he could probably double his original thought and have four or five :wub:

You might even change your opinion on how many once you have one! :)

So, I guess time shall tell. Who knows, things change so much one you get old... :wub:

~ Haddie


Thanks so much Haddie:)

You do have a good point. Guys do change their minds about stuff like that. Everyone tells me I will after I have my first, but I still want a HOUSE-FULL of kids.

I'd be sastified with 5 or 6. I know he wants 2 boys, but I always pictured a little girl as my first who was the spitting image of her daddy, spoiled daddy's little girl. I just love the image!




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