Baby Name Poll Results

If you want to use the middle name then do so. Just curious, but why didn’t you use it before.
I love Shiloh, and Stella is ok.
I despise the name Nicole, sorry.

Love Stella, but Nicole is just filler, doesn’t do anything special. Shiloh is ok. My one concern about Vergin or course is that it’s essentially "virgin". Still, I understand the idea of carrying on the tradition. If it were me, I would not use it, but it would be understandable if you decided to use it. GL!

I love Shiloh but really really really dislike Stella! Also to use your mn on only one of the twins is very odd and could make the other feel less special! VERY bad imo to use it on one, especially twins!

Stella is not a pretty name! Sorry I dont want to be rude but I think it is probably my least favorite girl name I’ve seen on here!

If you don’t like your middle name then i can’t imagine that they would

I was the first poster and said if you want to use it, but I changed my mind. I agree with the 3rd poster in that it could make the other feel less special, I mean I’m sure they would understand, but they may wish it was them or something. I agree with the whole "Virgin" thing as well. If you don’t like it on you I wouldn’t use it. Traditions are broken at some point and sometimes it’s for the best.

what about Stella Karene and Shilah Vergin

I would have used the middle name on your first girl, now that it is twins i wouldn’t unless you have a special family name for her too!! you don’t want to set them apart like that before they are even born!!

Unless you absolutely hate your middle name, I think it’s a nice tradition to carry it on. The names work well, but I like Shiloh lots better than Stella. Of course, as soon as your girls are born their names are going to become incredibly special just because they’re theirs!

I wouldn’t worry about making one feel "less special" because of sharing a middle name. It happens in many families that not all kids have a familial name, but if there is some other middle name you could use to honor someone specifically, that might be helpful. (A grandmother or aunt, maybe?).

Good luck!