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any help would be great!..I have just found out i am three months pregnant again. I am in two minds what to do. I would love to keep this baby and give it the best in life but on the other hand i am only 16 but will be 17 when the baby arrives and with twins that are only 1 i feel as i will struggle to cope. I have worked out that this baby was concieved before me and my boyfriend split up. Although we got back together 5 days ago. He is a lovely dad to our other children and has supported me and his children very much. He’s parents have gave us a deposit on a flat in which we have now got. My boyfriend is 19 and although not financially stable has enough money to supply us with our needs. Any help would be aprreciated very much..~ Elle, Matt, Leah and Kyle

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Please Help 100% (1 votes)
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>>>I have worked out that this baby was concieved before me and my boyfriend split up.
How else would it have happened? Do you sleep with random guys who aren’t your boyfriend?
posted by guest :: 2007-12-04 11:05:59 | report
i’ll give you an honest answer, No i dont sleep with random guys. Ive only ever slept with my boyfriend but until recently i made a huge mistake on the night we split and slept with my best mate i wasnt thinking straight at the time. how ever i came clean with my boyfriend and he has forgiven me as i have forgiven him for doing the same in the past
posted by guest: Elle :: 2007-12-04 11:13:43 | report
Please leave us some help!
posted by guest: Elle :: 2007-12-04 11:53:58 | report
I wish you all the best.

God Bless
posted by guest: Becca :: 2007-12-04 11:54:22 | report
I like the name Hannah or Isabel 4 a girl
Owen or Fletcher 4a boy
posted by guest: Becca :: 2007-12-04 11:57:47 | report
Look at it from the babies point of view. Would adoption give it a better opportunity?
Kate or Cole would be cute and keep your four letter name theme going.
posted by guest :: 2007-12-04 12:15:15 | report
If I were you I would put the baby up for open adoption. Then you could still watch it grow up and have a relationship with it but you would be able to support your family too.
posted by guest :: 2007-12-04 12:19:20 | report
Thanks for the help so far it is appreicated. I am really unsure as if i got rid of the baby we would feel guilty as we kept our twins but then what happens if we cant cope also with the open adoption idea.. what are we meant to tell our child when he/she asks why we gave him/her away but not their brother and sister?...please keep the help coming!
posted by guest: Elle :: 2007-12-04 12:27:27 | report
Keep your baby. It will work out. It seems you have a lot of corazon for the baby. Then it will all be fine as long as you have the Lord by your side.
God Bless you and yours!
posted by guest: Erica :: 2007-12-04 12:36:24 | report
Keep the baby if you think you will be able to provide for him/her. Either way, after the birth, go on the Pill ASAP!!!!!!!!! You can get it for free!
posted by guest :: 2007-12-04 12:43:02 | report
If you’re not sure about the adoption, then I’ll say the best is to keep your baby. It woud probably be difficult for a while, but as long as you stay together and love each other it will tourn out fine. I hope you find the best solution for your family and the baby. God bless you and good luck.
posted by guest :: 2007-12-04 12:43:53 | report
I know you are dealing with a difficult choice. You could always go with a closed adoption if you didn’t want to have questions from the twins or the baby. One of the couples at my church just adopted a little baby boy last week and I know he will have an absolutely wonderful home and he was such a blessing. I wish you all the best in your decision. I can tell you care deeply for the baby or you wouldn’t be seeking what is best. You will be in my prayers. God bless!
posted by guest :: 2007-12-04 12:48:53 | report
thanks for the help...we have decided to take responsibility for our actions and keep this baby aswell. We care so much for this baby and the rest of our children that we are going to bring them up the best we can. Yes we may find it hard but we will get there in the end. We have created a new poll asking for names so please have a look and leave ideas...Thank you very much
posted by guest: Elle :: 2007-12-04 12:54:31 | report
what are your twins names?
posted by guest: Aimee :: 2007-12-04 16:54:25 | report
Well to keep the names with four letters going: Gaby, Cole, Andy, Joey, Sami, Sara, Joan, Kaya, Mary, Dani, Dave,
Good luck!
Tip of Advice: Even though I was 18 when I first got pregnant (with Michaela Killian and Peyton Analise) the first thing I did right after I had them was start taking the Pill it worked very well. Good Luck Again
Lucy, Peyton, and Michaela
Oh and P.S. :Keep the baby. :]
posted by guest: LucyJoanne :: 2007-12-04 17:48:51 | report

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