Baby Name Poll

So very sadly, my first daughter, Cecilia, passed away of childhood cancer when she was only four years old, 6 years ago. On a happier note, I am expecting another daughter. However, my second husband wants to name our new girl... Cecily! It was his beloved grandmother’s name, and a name that he has loved long before he met me. However, this is just too close for me. To me, naming our daughter Cecily would feel like replacing Cecilia, which I would never want to do, and I would feel the grief I felt when Cecilia passed away every time I heard the name Cecily. My second husband is stuck on this name, but I don’t think I could bear using it. We cannot use it as a middle name, because we already have a middle name picked out. What should I do?!?!?