Baby Name Poll

My best friend, Jessica, has recently decided to give her baby up for adoption, for certain financial reasons, so I told her that I would like to adopt him/her when it is born, which she is thrilled about and accepted right away. Me, my husband and out 6 year old daughter, Presley are moving to a different state a couple months after the baby is born and the papers are all signed in February. We came to the agreement that the birth mother would pick the middle names and we would pick first names as we won’t know the gender until birth. Well, Jessica want’s to use the name Indiana for either gender middle name seeing as how the baby will be born in that state but moved to a different one a while after birth. But we aren’t so keen on this idea. I think it’s tacky. But we don’t want to tell her that we don’t like it in fear that she may decided not to let us adopt the baby. How do we solve this problem here? Should we just deal with Indiana even though we don’t like it or should we maybe do something about it, if so what can we do without making her angry? ~Tara