Baby Name Poll

My husband and I just recently got married and we wanted to know how long everyone else waited to have a baby after they were married. We were thinking about starting to try soon since I have been told it could take a loooonnggg time for me to get pregnant. It took my mother 20 years to have me and we definitely don’t want it to take that long. We are financially stable, own our own house, and have no debt so we are covered in that area. We’ve heard though that when you have a baby your relationship with each other goes downhill. We don’t want that to happen so that scares us a bit too! Do you guys think it would be okay to just have one and wait six or seven years to have another? Suggestions or advice? Thank you everyone who responds! We know this isn’t for these type of questions but there are a lot of mothers on here and we thought you could offer advice. Again, thanks :)