Baby Name Poll Results

My hubby and I both have very different naming traditions that we both want to honour. We’re expecting a girl. In his, all the children (male or female) are given the father’s name as the middle name, so his name is Jay. In mine, the first born child gets their maternal grandparents’ middle name so Diana. We both have tradition of giving the child a new, unused name so Tejal, a Hindu name meaning ’radiant, glowing’. Our surname is Harkness-Tailor. So how do we use both our traditions without ending up with Tejal Jay Diana Harkness Tailor? Thanks in advance! Jackie