Baby Name Poll Results

I’m not sure how to put this so people understand what is being asked. I’ve tried it a few times have gotten next to no feedback, except for votes on names. I’m the one that continues to ask Katie or Kaitlyn, and depending on when I ask it either all voted Katie or all Kaitlyn and most don’t give their reason for why. I love both and their not chosen because I can’t find another name that I like, both names are a variation of my name so there’s meaning in both. I had originally liked Katie with Emily, Alyssa and Sophie/Sophia but I’ve started to feel like it does go well with them and I feel like Kaitlyn is a much better fit. That is my first issue, my second is I have a younger cousin named Cailin and if I used Kaitlyn would this be an issue. My third problem is even though I love my middle name choices (double middle name), Alexandra stays of course, but my 2nd middle names Paige/Claire/Faith are starting to lose their appeal. If I should keep a certain name I’d like to know why and if not what would be a better name to go in its place. I’ve had grace and hope suggested but before their listed again I’ll say this now, the only virtue names I like are Faith, Serenity and Felicity. Please help me with these issues.