Baby Name Poll Results

ingore her and name ur baby it. i mean if she ends up haveing a boy, then where will u be? go ahead. i would

Did you already have it picked out then she fell in love with it or did she have it picked out and then you fell in love with it?

I don’t think I would do it either way but that’s me. Is it worth causing her to be mad? Or what if you use it and then she uses it too? Then you will be mad. Family drama!

yeah that is exactly what i said and she said that doesnt matter and that would i really want to do this just over a name. she said that if she has a boy then the name is ruined not the family its really messed up

yeah i know i dont want to start that kind of drama and i picked it out about 4 months ago and asked her opinion and she said she hated it now she likes it but when i finally decided to u use it she told me she chose addyson and aiden and today when i tell everyone i find out she changed her mind to it about a week ago and was set on it but that she will be furious but i thnk ill just change it i want the birth of my baby to be joyful with no drama

I also think she is doing this over a name, you know? I would talk about it, try to find another name, but if you can’t, use it.

If she gets mad at you over a name then she’s not even worth your attention. Go ahead and use it if you love it! Like the first poster said, if she ends up having a boy then where will you be?
I say use it and forget her! Family or not!

i agree i think she is just childish especially cuz she doesnt even know what she is having

Is it the exact name, first and middle? Does it have family significance? Consider something similar or agree to use different nicknames, middle names, etc. Like poster #1 said, she might not even have a girl. The rule is first come first serve, but I’d say the exception would be if there is a more significant tie to her than to you (ie, it’s a family member’s name who is closer to her than to you, she had a best friend with that name, etc). If it is really significant to her, I might use it anyway but use a middle name I’m willing to call her in case she does have a girl and uses it.

no she just likes the name but bugs me that she didnt like it now she does

I would sit her down and talk to her. Tell her that you picked this name before she was even involved, and why you think it is the perfect name for your baby. Then tell her that she can name her baby whatever she wants to, but you have decided on this name and you are going to use it.

First in best dressed!

I think she is being childish and selfish. She doesn’t even know if she is going to get to use the name. You love it use it. Maybe you can help her pick out a name when she knows what she is having.