Baby Name Poll

My husband and I are in love with the name Hayden but everyone we have spoken to has said that its too masculine. I know Hayden is traditionally a boys name, but we know both boys and girls with the name. We thought of Hayley as a more feminine option but definitely dont love it as much. We also thought of naming her Hayden Lee or Hayden Leah nn Haylee / Hayley but aren't sure if it will work. If we dont go with Lee or Leah as the middle name, it will most likely be a very feminine name like Grace. We would love to use Hayden but dont want people judging her name. Thank you :)